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Hiding the Holocaust: Memoir of a Deaf Daughter

This memoir by Irene W. Leigh, PhD, explores her parents' silence about their Nazi-era experiences and how uncovering hidden history shaped her identity and life.

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While Irene W. Leigh, PhD, was aware of her parents’ connection to the Holocaust, she didn’t know any details. Uncovering a shocking document led her on a path of discovery, ultimately leading her to write a memoir about their experience and its impact on her own life.

Published April 21, 2026 by Gallaudet University Press, Hiding the Holocaust: Memoir of a Deaf Daughter is Irene’s ninth book. While the lifetime AG Bell member, who joined the Association in the mid-70s, is an experienced academic writer, this kind of personal writing was a “learning journey.”

Currently Professor Emerita at Gallaudet University, where she is a former Professor and Chair of the Department of Psychology, Irene still has a private practice in psychotherapy and is involved in ongoing writing on critical issues related to individuals who are deaf and hard of hearing in the areas of mental health, parenting, psychosocial aspects, identity, and cochlear implants.

Armed with this background, Irene is a natural at exploring how “unspoken history and inherited trauma inform personal, familial, academic, and career experiences,” according to Gallaudet University Press’ description.

Hiding The Holocaust: A Personal Journey

Irene’s parents escaped Germany in 1939, six years after the Nazi government came into power.

“What I have absolutely no knowledge of was their direct experiences with what was imposed on them by the Nazi regime beyond the minimal superficialities my mother would divulge,” Irene says. “There was no way I could get any descriptive information from both my parents.”

What she unearthed, after her father died, was the very first indication that there may have been more to their experiences. Keeping silent was typical of many WWII survivors, who wanted to escape their traumatic memories.

Writing the book was a several-year process, in which Irene employed a lifespan narrative structure, focusing on memories, reflections, and recreated dialogue. She calls the experience enlightening as she began to understand more about the ways in which her experiences influenced how she navigated her life. The book description states that Irene’s parents “passed down a legacy of ambition, persistence, and achievement, shaping her resilience in response to bias and discrimination.”

Indeed, Irene says intergenerational transmission of trauma can be passed on in different ways—not just in describing experiences, but in behavior and attitudes like overreactions to stress and trust issues. There is also intergenerational transmission of hope and resilience, she adds.

“My parents met the challenge of unexpectedly finding out they had a deaf daughter, when they knew nothing about what deaf meant,” Irene says. “As my mother typically said, ‘Life has to go on. Make the best of it.’ That reflects how they handled their past and how they handled the rest of their lives. They made the best of it by affirming my identity as a deaf person, a deaf daughter. They never imposed the burden of having me make up for their past, but I unconsciously absorbed it.”

Irene wants readers to have the realization that “challenges can be overcome and that being deaf is not an impediment to maximizing one’s potential, no matter the obstacles.”

“Also, understanding one’s past can lead to better self-awareness, as was the case for me in the process of writing this book,” she adds.

The 272-page book can be purchased on Amazon, the Gallaudet University Press and Barnes & Noble websites.

Ocultando el Holocausto: memorias de una hija con sordera

Aunque la Dra. Irene W. Leigh era consciente de la relación de sus padres con el Holocausto, desconocía los detalles. El hallazgo de un documento impactante la llevó por un camino de descubrimiento que, en última instancia, daría lugar a unas memorias sobre la experiencia de sus padres y el impacto que tuvo en su propia vida.

Publicado el 21 de abril de 2026 por Gallaudet University Press, Hiding the Holocaust: Memoir of a Deaf Daughter (Ocultando el Holocausto: memorias de una hija con sordera) es el noveno libro de Irene. Miembro vitalicia de AG Bell y asociada a la organización desde mediados de la década de 1970, Irene cuenta con una amplia experiencia como escritora académica, aunque este tipo de escritura personal supuso para ella un verdadero «proceso de aprendizaje».

Actualmente es profesora emérita de la Gallaudet University, donde fue profesora y directora del departamento de Psicología. Además, mantiene una consulta privada de psicoterapia y continúa escribiendo sobre cuestiones fundamentales relacionadas con las personas con sordera e hipoacusia en ámbitos como la salud mental, la crianza de los hijos, los aspectos psicosociales, la identidad y los implantes cocleares.

Con esta trayectoria, Irene estaba especialmente preparada para explorar cómo «la historia silenciada y el trauma heredado influyen en las experiencias personales, familiares, académicas y profesionales», según la descripción de Gallaudet University Press.

Ocultando el Holocausto: un viaje personal

Los padres de Irene huyeron de Alemania en 1939, seis años después de que los nazis llegaran al poder.

«No tenía absolutamente ningún conocimiento de las experiencias directas que vivieron bajo las imposiciones del régimen nazi, más allá de los escasos datos superficiales que mi madre estaba dispuesta a revelar», explica Irene. «No había forma de obtener información detallada de ninguno de mis padres».

Lo que descubrió tras la muerte de su padre fue el primer indicio de que sus experiencias podían haber sido mucho más profundas de lo que imaginaba. Guardar silencio era algo habitual por parte de numerosos supervivientes de la Segunda Guerra Mundial, que intentaban dejar atrás recuerdos traumáticos.

La escritura del libro fue un proceso de varios años, en el que Irene emplea una estructura narrativa que abarca toda una vida, centrándose en recuerdos, reflexiones y diálogos recreados. Califica la experiencia de esclarecedora, ya que empezó a comprender mejor cómo sus propias vivencias habían influido en la forma en que había afrontado la vida. Según la descripción del libro, sus padres «le transmitieron un legado de ambición, perseverancia y logros, que forjó su resiliencia frente a los prejuicios y la discriminación».

De hecho, Irene sostiene que la transmisión intergeneracional del trauma puede darse de diferentes maneras: no solo al describir experiencias, sino también a través de comportamientos y actitudes como las reacciones exageradas ante el estrés y los problemas de confianza. Añade que también existe una transmisión intergeneracional de esperanza y resiliencia.

«Mis padres se enfrentaron al reto de descubrir inesperadamente que tenían una hija con sordera, cuando no sabían nada de lo que significaba la sordera», afirma Irene. «Como solía decir mi madre: «La vida continúa. Sácale el máximo partido», lo que refleja la forma en que afrontaron su pasado y toda su vida. Le sacaron el máximo partido al afirmar mi identidad como persona con sordera, como hija con sordera. Nunca me impusieron la carga de compensar su pasado, pero yo la absorbí inconscientemente».

Irene desea que los lectores comprendan que «los desafíos se pueden superar y que tener sordera no es un impedimento para desarrollar plenamente el propio potencial, independientemente de los obstáculos».

«Además, comprender el propio pasado puede conducir a una mayor conciencia de uno mismo, como fue mi caso durante el proceso de escritura de este libro», añade.

El libro, de 272 páginas, se puede comprar en Amazon y en los sitios web de Gallaudet University Press y Barnes & Noble.

 

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